Your generosity is genuinely appreciated, but the only gift we ask of you is your presence at our wedding! We understand that many of you will have to travel from out of state, and even for those in state it may not be easy to afford a gift, so we have no expectation that you bring or send a gift for us.
We have been living together for four years, so we really do have everything we need. Additonally, we're flying to Indianapolis for this so any physical gifts given to us at the wedding itself will be a bit of a hassle to get home. Because of that, if you insist on a gift for us, please mail it to our home address instead of bringing it to the wedding.
The most helpful gift would be a financial contribution to help us with the wedding and honeymoon. Reach out to Dawson and/or Alysa directly if you'd like to do this. But again, zero pressure.